Take Time to Say Thanks

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Hi Friends-

As you guys know, this is mostly a food and fitness blog. I don’t write a whole lot of posts that are super deep, heavy or from the heart. In fact, it’s been about two months since my last one (What’s in a Jean Size?). But yesterday something happened that really tugged at my heart strings and it brought to mind something that I’ve found myself thinking about a lot lately- saying “thank you”.

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Let me back up. Yesterday, as most of you know, was Foodie Penpals Reveal Day. (ps…there’s still time to jump onboard for May!) After I got out of class yesterday, I was checking my email and a comment notification popped up on one of my posts from a few months ago. Remember back in January when I wrote this post called Things Blogging Has Taught Me?  A sweet woman named Kristen, who blogs over at Miami Housewife, found that post and left a comment. Here’s what she said:

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I read her comment several times because I was so touched by it. I’m always so happy to hear people say they can relate to my posts, and it made my day to hear that she liked my blog and found it inspiring. And after thinking about it the whole way home, all I really wanted to do was say thank you to her.

Thank you:

  • For reading my blog.
  • For taking the time to look around and read more than just one post.
  • For making an effort to tell me how much she liked my blog.

It means so much.

I’m just as guilty as anyone else of not saying thank you as often as I should. But I’m working on it. In fact, this post is probably a long time coming.

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I was raised to say please and thank you for everything and I was raised to write thank you notes all.the.time.

  • When someone gives you a present…write a thank you note.
  • When someone acts as your reference….write a thank you note.
  • When someone takes the time to help you….write a thank you note.

It’s something I got annoyed with my mom for making me do when I was younger, but it’s one of the things I appreciate most now that I’m an adult.  And it’s definitely something I plan to teach my children someday.
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Because I think a lot of people truly underestimate the power of a simple “thank you”.

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I get legitimate road rage when someone flies by me in the left lane and then cuts over into my lane at the last minute to get on the highway. But it’s amazing how much calmer I remain if that person waves “thank you” as they’re switching lanes.

I spend a lot of time working on Foodie Penpals and I don’t get paid a dime…but when someone replies to one of my emails and says “thank you” for organizing or thanks me for helping connect them with a new friend…every single second is totally worth it.

But, this post is not me digging for compliments or a thank you for anything i’ve done. This post was written as a reminder to all of you….to take the time to say thank you the next time one is deserved.

  • If someone sends you something awesome in the mail, SAY THANK YOU. Tell them how much you appreciated it.
  • If someone sits there and listens to you complain about something, whether it be important or trivial….say hey, thanks for listening.
  • If someone writes a blog post that inspires you to make a positive change, or motivates you to try harder…TELL THEM. Say thank you.
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Because you never know how much it might mean to someone.

Or how much it may validate all the work they put into something.

Or how what a big smile it might bring to their face.

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So go out today and say thank you:

  • Call your family and say thanks for being there for me.
  • Leave a comment on your favorite blog, especially if you’ve never commented before, and say thanks for writing.
  • Leave an extra tip for your waiter/waitress and say thanks for a great meal.
  • Thank a member of the armed forces for their service to our country.
  • Thank someone you see doing a usually thankless job like collecting trash or cleaning the bathroom.
  • Send a note to a friend and say thanks for sticking by your side over the years.

Every single one of us has so much to be thankful for. So give thanks for it. And SAY THANKS FOR IT!

Trust me…it’ll be worth your while.

So this is me saying thank you to all of you.

  • To every single person who reads my blog- whether it’s one time, or every single day.
  • To everyone who has taken the time to tell me how much they appreciate and enjoy Foodie Penpals.
  • To all of my Fitfluential friends who motivate me every single day.
  • To anyone that has ever tried one of my recipes or workouts and told me how much they enjoyed it.
  • To my husband- for everything he does around the house.
  • To my family- for constantly reminding me how important I am, even when I’m far away.
  • To my entire support system- for everything you do every.single.day.
I know I don’t say it enough….but thank you.

–Lindsay–

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  2. I find myself in the same position a lot where I take things for granted, not intentionally. Saturday I woke up early (cause the movers showed up at 6:50am) and watched the sun come up over the pasture and realized that I needed to be more grateful in all aspects of life. I understand Kristen’s situation, I get frustrated when my blog isn’t getting a lot of viewers, but she is right. Our blogs are for us, for us to vent, for us to learn, and for us to share. And if I can reach just one person, encourage one person, or touch one person, then that alone is enough.

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  3. What a humbling post! I’ve been doing some serious self reflecting over the last few days and being grateful for what I have is one of things I am focusing on.

    Thanks for the post and thanks for a great blog 🙂

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  6. linz,

    you put so much heart and soul into you blog and it shows! I love my daily bean. It’s inspiring. You include everyone and you are a JOY to read. SO i agree with the comment above… THANK YOU sweet friend. KEep it up!

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  10. I absolutely love this post so very much. It really is such a simple thing that can mean so much. And that’s how I feel about all of my blog readers when they comment – I thank each and ever person for stopping by. It means more than they can know. And thank YOU for writing this post!

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  11. I love receiving comments like that…they just make my day! And I agree that saying thank you (and not just thinking it) is so important. Thanks for writing this post and reminding us to think about all that we have and be thankful! 🙂

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  12. It’s soooo true!! I think thank you is a powerful word, and like you, I was raised to thank anyone for anything they did. Even still, when I get a birthday card from my grandparents or something, my mom is like, “did you say thank you yet?”

    Even though I feel thankful, I might just try to be that little more thankful 😉

    Thank YOU, Lindsay!!

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  13. Lindsay… this is such a great post. I will surely keep this in mind throughout the day today.

    Thank YOU for the motivation, for being so warm and welcoming, and for taking the time to write thoughtful posts like this one.

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  15. Great post!! I was raised the same way and it baffles me when some people can’t say a simple “thank you”. It just makes me say thank you even more and appreciate the good people in my life.

    Thank You for this post and everything you do. I really enjoy reading your blog.

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  17. Thank you for this amazing reminder – we all have SO MUCH to be thankful for and I think I need to remember that more often. And in case I haven’t said it recently – THANK YOU for Foodie Penpals. I’m sure it’s like herding cats at times, but it’s such a fun event to be a part of each month and you do a GREAT job hosting! 🙂

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  18. Thank you for this post. Like others have said, you put so much heart and soul into your blog, foodie penpals, everything you do. One of the reasons that I wanted to join foodie penpals was because of all the effort and care that you put into. I wouldn’t normally sign up for something like this but you’ve obviously created something special. Thank YOU!

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  19. I love this — both the sentiment behind the post itself, the reminder and the real heartfelt words you shared with us here. Its truly those little “things” – moments, messages, memories that make the world go round, huh? So easily we forget that, though. So today? I’m thanking YOU for the reminder. xo

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  20. I love this post! What a great comment from a reader to bring you back to giving thanks. It’s easy to fly through the day and week and month and year without realizing all the little things we should remember to stop, breathe, and say thank you for. What a great post, and I love these types of ‘unexpected’ deeper posts, they’re so great, gives me even more of a view into who you are and what makes you tick 🙂 And thank YOU for writing this post and reminding us all to stop and give thanks.

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  22. What a lovely post Lindsay — it actually gave me chills up the spine 🙂 My husband and I were also raised to express our appreciation and gratitude to others, but it is so easy to forget to say it when life gets busy. Thank you for the reminder and for being such a great inspiration!

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  23. great post. definitely think it’s so nice to thank people. its easy to let time fly by and you may have always meant to thank them, etc. you just inspired me to thank some people that deserve it!! thanks to you!

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  25. I SO love this post! I was raised similarly, and it really does make a difference to just say or hear those two little words.

    I want to say a big Thank You to you, my friend! For being a great ‘bloggie’ friend, for supporting my blog, and for inspiring me! xxoo

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  28. Thank you for the reminder about how important it is to thank people for what they do. I have a facebook page and a blog (ArmsWideOpen) and it REALLY makes my day when people comment. I do it out of love for writing and running, and a desire to help people, not for the thanks — but it really motivates me and inspires me when I know people are getting something out of it. Kudos for a great blog!!

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  30. I agree 100% I was raised the same way. And it seems that so many were not. It is sad. Your post made me smile today, as they usually do. So thank you!!!

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  31. I agree with that commenter, I love using blogs as inspiration but it is hard not to get caught in comparing. Sometimes we all need that reminder that we are unique and doing a blog for us! You are truly an inspiration and I have loved getting to read your blog each day.

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  32. I could NOT agree more and even though I know you aren’t fishing for compliments or thank you’s…I do thank you for hosting Foodie Pen Pals!! I can only IMAGINE how much work it must be and I do appreciate it b/c its SO MUCH FUN! So thanks!!! And thanks for this post, 🙂

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  33. This post is wonderful. Well, of course, you are welcome. But really, I’d want to say thank you right back for being there – your blog is wonderful and I do read it every time you post (the beauty of Google Reader 😉 I find your posts hilarious, delicious, and motivating. So thank you for that. And you are awesome and creative for coming up with Foodie Pen Pals!

    Thank you for being you 🙂

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  35. Lovely post! I suck at thank you notes (not the writing, the actual mailing LOL), but I am really good at always saying thank you to people like cashiers and crossing guards and such.

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  40. What a great reminder, Lindsay. Thank you for posting this and thank you for being you. I LOVE Foodie Pen Pals and tell everyone about it :). You rock!!!

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  41. Oh my goodness, Lindsay – what else can I say after a post like that except thank you 🙂 You just made my week! I had no idea my comment would cause that reaction. I loved that post so much and just kinda wrote what was on my mind without really thinking…funny how when you speak from the heart, it can end up being more meaningful than any well-thought-out idea. As a new blogger it’s easy to get used to the idea that no one is really reading what you write; what a great reminder that even if they’re not commenting, someone is always listening. Many, many thanks for your kind words – now I’m off to say some more thank yous to the people (and bloggers) in my life!

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  42. Wonderful post! I totally agree about the importance of saying thank you. It can truly make a person’s day. 🙂 I would like to thank YOU for being such a wonderful, supportive friend!

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  43. Great post! I can’t tell you how many times I have done somethign for strangers, like hold a door, and don’t get anything. I have started saying, really loud, “YOUR WELCOME.” I don’t care. People lack manners.

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  44. Linds- I love this post. If I wasn’t on my iPad I would write you a novel but you are amazing. I’m so impressed by your blog, ideas, dedication, and your poise. Thank you for giving us an example to strive for.

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  45. I really, really liked this post. I used to never do “deep” posts – but I feel like I’ve been doing them a lot lately.
    A little appreciate goes a long way! I know how I feel when I receive it, and I am always trying to remember to pay it forward. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this and writing such a nice piece.

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  48. What an awesome blog!!! And thank you! For your incredible posts every day, for the Foodie Pen Pals program and for the reminder to thank the people (and bloggers) in our lives. I have several blogs that I subscribe to (like yours), but I am really bad about commenting. I will be making an effort today to comment on all of the blogs that I read.

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  49. After reading this post I realized I never commented on your Thai Salmon Peanut Burger recipe after making it 3 times!!! Seriously thanks for sharing that DELICIOUS recipe. I seriously love it:) and so does my husband. I put it over a salad with some goat cheese one of the times and it was awesome! Thanks again! Love your blog and appreciate all the time that goes into it!

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  50. After reading this post I realized I never commented on you “Thai Salmon Peanut Burgers” recipe after making it 3 times!!! Seriously, thanks for sharing that DELICIOUS recipe. I love it:) and so does my husband. I put it over a salad with some goat cheese one of the times and it was awesome! Thanks again! Love your blog. Thanks for all you’re hard work you put into it!

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  51. And THANK YOU! for sharing Kristen’s comment and blog. I am in Miami and have been looking for fellow runners/bloggers ladies to connect locally for like the past 8 months… you might have helped that process tremendously… Thank you! Oh yeah, and thank you for Foodie Pen Pals of course, I can’t even imagine the work of managing over 300 hungry ladies 🙂

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  52. I actually came back to read this post for a second time… feeling a bit down and needed to remind myself to be thankful for everything wonderful I have in my life! Your blog is one of those things. 🙂 Thanks for being you. <3

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  54. Great post, Lindsay – It really is the small things that make a huge difference! I always try to have a ‘Thank You’ mentalitiy because of things exactly like this – the power of a small, thoughtful thank you is incredible! I too was taught to write thank you notes after EVERYTHING – and within the week that the gift/event happened – I’m thankful for that now but at the time, GEEZE! WHAT A PAIN! right? 🙂

    Anyway, nice to meet you in person this weekend! Hope you’re home, safe and sound!

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  55. THANK YOU Lindsay for being so helpful and encouraging when it comes to Foodie Penpals – without you, there wouldn’t be a lot of people around a lot of countries getting excited to send each other thoughtful, generous parcels. So thank you x

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